Nepo Baby vs. Lapo Baby: Privilege vs. Hustle Culture in the Diaspora – Relufe X-Plained Ep. 6
What Side of the Privilege Divide Are You On?
In Episode 6 of Relufe X-Plained, we dissect one of the most viral and thought-provoking conversations online — Nepo Baby vs. Lapo Baby. With Nigerian Gen Z and Millennials in the USA, UK, and Canada watching closely, this episode dives into the social divide between privilege and struggle, family influence and self-made hustle.
Whether you grew up in Lagos or now live in London, Houston, or Toronto, this conversation is for you. Let’s X-plain the viral tweets and real-life truths that reveal just how different our paths really are.
What Exactly Is a Nepo Baby or a Lapo Baby?
Nepo Baby: Someone born into opportunity — access to connections, education, wealth, or fame. Think second-gen success stories or children of celebrities and elites.
Lapo Baby: A symbol of grit — someone who came from the bottom, built with sweat, tears, and pure resilience. No silver spoons, just survival and ambition.
This episode brings these two labels face-to-face in the context of both Nigerian society and the broader diaspora experience.
Why It Resonates in the Diaspora
If you’re Nigerian living in the United States, Canada, or the United Kingdom, you likely understand both sides:
The pressure to succeed without a fallback system.
The silent envy (or admiration) for those who had a head start.
The question of “Do I work harder, or did they just start ahead?”
This episode bridges both worlds, helping viewers embrace their journey while acknowledging privilege’s role in shaping outcomes.
Viral Tweets That Sparked the Debate
Relufe X-Plained dissects trending posts like:
“I’m a Nepo Baby but I still grind harder than most Lapo Babies.”
“All Lapo Babies want is one shot. No godfathers, just a chance.”
“The diaspora struggle is real. Nepo in Nigeria, Lapo in America.”
These tweets became the voice of a generation — and Episode 6 brings them to life.
The Cultural Conversation We All Need
Across Lagos, Atlanta, London, and Ontario, this episode has something for everyone:
For the Nepo Babies: Gratitude, recognition, and humility.
For the Lapo Babies: Encouragement, representation, and voice.
For Everyone: A moment of truth and shared understanding.
Key Takeaways from Episode 6
Privilege exists — and it shapes access, not always success.
Hustle culture glorifies suffering — but balance is essential.
In the diaspora, even privileged people face new challenges.
Real growth comes from understanding both privilege and perseverance.
Why This Episode Matters
For first-generation immigrants in the West, and their children navigating identity and ambition, this episode hits home. It doesn’t just explain a trend — it reflects the unspoken tensions and truths in our lives.